The Herd shows up for each other. These guidelines keep this space safe, honest, and welcoming.
We expect
- Treat every member with kindness, dignity, and patience.
- Respect anonymity, recovery, and privacy. What's shared here stays here.
- Speak from your own experience. No medical or legal advice.
- Honor boundaries. "No" is a complete sentence.
- Show up for newcomers — say hello.
We don't allow
- Harassment, hate speech, threats, or doxxing.
- Sales, MLMs, recruiting for outside programs without approval.
- Sharing other members' identities, photos, or stories without consent.
- Sexual content, predatory behavior, or anything that endangers a member.
- Misrepresenting credentials, sobriety, or volunteer roles.
If something feels off
Use the in-app report tools or email hello@afterpartyera.app. In an emergency, call 988 (US) or your local emergency number first.
Consequences
We may warn, restrict, or remove accounts that violate these guidelines, especially when safety is at stake.